Did your parents teach you how to love? Did what you saw in your family teach you how to love? Did you friends teach you how to love? Did a stranger teach you about love?
Assuming that the kind of love your parents, family, friends or strangers taught you about was not corrupt, dysfunctional or abusive I would say you had learned wonderful truths about loving from them.
There are some who have had parents, family, friends and stranger who have only showed them a cold kind of love at best. Are they the unfortunate ones?
Is it better to have been taught about decent, pure and honorable love from those you trust than to be fed a cold love that cuts off circulation and numbs the heart?
I say love well. Love honorably. Love intentionally. Teach the children about true love. Show them courageous act of love. But don’t lead them to one day ask these same questions or worse such as, What is love?